A Paranoid's guide to walking home alone at night

Ok, as every girl knows, getting home at night is always something you have to be prepared for before you even head out. Safety is very important, especially for girls. I'm sure you have heard many stories about girls on their way home. A few times I have been walking home alone, from the bus stop or a friends house and got so paranoid about every little noise. The thoughts and mini-plan I made up in my head, led me to set up this blog. I use these tips every time I walk alone, late at night. You can pick and choose but these are the ones that work for me. And be warned, to you they might be over the top but as I've said, I'm a slightly paranoid person.

Oh My God, Shoes!
Everyone wants to wear the heals that make your calves look great but think about walking home. So many times I have left my shoes under the table, while my bare feet danced the night away. Unfortunately, when walking home, you have no choice but to wear your shoes, as there is glass and who knows what on the ground. I find flip-flops (or thongs, as they say down under) are very handy. You can get quite small ones that fit into your handbag or coat pocket. I know what you're thinking "coat pocket?” I always check my coat or leave it at a table. It doesn't matter if your coat is bulging; it's only to get there and walk home. That way, I can still have a cute handbag but I know my comfortable flip-flops are waiting for me on the way home. Also, imagine running for a bus or taxi in shoes that feel like they're filling up with your blood. No thanks!

Always walk towards the light
If there is one side of the street that has street lamps, make sure to walk on that side. I know it sounds obvious but it might not be when you feel you're being followed. Everything is revealed in the light. You can see if there's anyone coming down the road towards you. Not only can you see people but people can see you. You will be visible to cars and people that pass by, in case anything was to happen. If you see someone coming towards you or you think there is someone coming towards you, turn around as if you are checking for traffic, to make sure. If there is no one there, you can continue on. If there is someone following you: cross the road. But make sure to return to the light when you feel safe.

The road less travelled
Even though the park near your house, or the lane way, cuts 5 minutes off your trip, don’t be tempted to take short cuts late at night. You never know what is hiding in the dark. It also conflicts with tip two. Most of these “short cuts” are dimly lit, if lit at all. They can be hangout areas for people having a few drinks. Keep to roads where there are cars passing every few seconds, even in the wee hours of the morning. Make sure to walk on the outside of the path (closest to the road) and carry your bag on that side as well. If someone wanted to quickly snatch your bag or worse, make it really difficult for them. In the end, your phone, keys and well-used mascara are not worth getting hurt over. If someone comes at you, being right next to the road means there is somewhere to go, rather then being up against a wall.

Hold the phone!

I know it sounds weird but walking with your phone in your hand means that if you are in trouble, it's right there. From regular texting, most people know where the buttons are without looking. This way you can be texting in your pocket or up your sleeve, if you feel unsafe. Also, you can phone someone in a hurry if it's an emergency. You don't have to worry about looking suspicious by reaching into your bag and if you put it on vibrate, only you will know when you get a message.

On a lighter note
I have never had trouble walking home at night. A lot of people don't think twice about it but like I said, I'm a bit paranoid. Just make sure you have your keys before you leave your friends. If not, you can persued a friend to let you stay over. When you finally get home, you can curl up and relax. Nighty night!